Preface
The ancient nursery rhymes said: The girl is with the sugar, the spice as well as all fine things makes.
Indeed, with likes the scissors, the pistol, tank and so on risky the thing boys compares, the girl likes the foreign-style doll, attractive headdress flower,infant girls clothes shop, nice-smelling perfume and so on all fine things.
Because of so, the girl is looking like is as if better than the boy raises--
Because they are peaceful, the cooperation, very small will forgive the parents;
They will not look like the boy such to like take risking, to like the battle;
They will not look like the boy such to open family's in electric appliance scattered and disorderly;
Then,cheap baby gear, girl's growth certainly can problem-free? In raises the girl in the process, will the parents be forever will not meet the difficult problem?
The family has girl's parents to see here, can definitely the forced smile shake the head said: These small girl did not look like you to say such good educated. Was saying then started to enumerate own worry:
She is very always sensitive, will cry not to stop.
She always inexplicably depressed.
She always very much relies on to us, sometimes she even does not dare in her room to sleep.
She always flatters us, flatters teacher, flatters schoolmateShe even wants to flatter all people.
, The girl is indeed sensitive, likes crying, to like playing the small temperament, timidAll these were puzzles the girl parents the difficult problem 0.1 girls' fathers once like this saying:Looks that my mood changeable daughter, I likely am looked just from spaceship down the alien is the same, really makes one ponder over airtight.
Actually, the reason that this guardian said like this that is because he does not understand the girl, did not know that girl's growth rule, does not understand girl's psychology.
At the matter, girl's growth has certain rule;
Girl's educational mode and the boy are completely different;
Girl's growth is very easy to meet the question;
As girl's parents, you do not understand these, your girl will be unhealthy, will grow joyfully.
Then, trains the girl perfect new times little princess, which daily details is the parents to pay attention to?
This book embarks from girl's sex and the psychological feature, lives in view of the girl, the study, the individuality raise, discusses a request the raise, the personal character raise as well as the puberty education and so on many aspects, had girl's guardian for the family to summarize 100 education details. In each detail, has analyzed the reason which girl certain behaviors produce, and put forward the practical and feasible proposal for the guardians.
The summary,baby accessories, this book has girl's parents to the family to propose such educated the girl four principles:
Principle one: Let her life be more joyful, little is injured--Teaches your girl academic society to love itself
As girl's parents, we will discover, daughter at very small time will be with good intention, to win our love, she will go to the back ancient poetry diligently, will study paints pictures as well as makes to let our happy matter
Regarding this, child psychology scientist has given the authoritative answer: The girl lives in the relational world, she uses the relations to weigh periphery all, will therefore pay great attention the girl who will relate for the relations to sacrifice all frequently.
This relationship's thinking modes, cause the girl inborn to have many merits, like is with good intention, can forgive other people, can be together harmoniously very easily with other people, and so on.
But anything has the dual character, this thinking mode brings the merit to the girl at the same time, also has brought many worries:
In order to try to please other people, she will do not hesitate to harm her benefit frequently;
In order to maintain with other people's between relations, she will often hide her viewpoint;
For does not destroy with other people's between relations, she will often not say;
Has lived under such thinking mode, even if the adult can feel is very tired, regarding these innermost feelings is not the very strong little girl, this is also precisely they are easier in the development process to receive the injury the primary cause. What is more serious, if the child has given up, makes concessions own legitimate interest, then after she grows up, what person will become?
--Without the principle
--Without the standpoint
--Not in the least opinion
Suppose, if a woman has lost the principle, standpoint and opinion, also how to win boss's entrusting with heavy responsibility, colleague's love, husband's respect, child's trust, friend's approvalCannot obtain these, what significance does her life also have?
Therefore, is small in the girl, the parents should tell them: Do not offer own legitimate interest unprincipled, do not always bury the different sound, must learn to encroach upon you the person not to say intentionally, must learn to love itself.
Certainly, this not wants the girl the parents to violate girl's thought rule intentionally, breaks their thinking mode. Must know that the parents to girl's reminder and the education, often may reduce her to encounter the injury greatly the possibility, perhaps avoids the occurrence which injures.
Therefore, is small in the girl, the parents should tell them: Pays great attention between the person and person's relations are very good, but must learn to love itself!
Principle two: For girl more reason loves
When the girl made a mistake, is the parents to criticize her two unavoidably, but the parents will discover by now, the girl also was very very intense to not the severe criticism response--Flows the tear suffering from injustice.
Will have by now definitely the parents to believe that the girls such were narrow-minded!
Actually, the girl likes crying is not because she is narrow-minded--Parents' criticism and the penalty make her be sad, what but makes her sad is, she could not feel parents' love! By now, in her small head definitely could think: Father and mother no longer loved me?
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